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"Howard Schweber: Same Sex Marriage: the Worst Argument in the World" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-10-22 07:34:45

Last week the Connecticut Supreme Court ruled that the state must extend the legal status of marriage to same-sex couples. Their argument involved a determination that homosexuals constitute a quasi-suspect class -- a question the U. S. Supreme Court has gone to nearly incredible lengths to avoid addressing -- but I'm not really interested in that at the moment. Instead it's the dissenting arguments that intrigue me. Debates about same-sex marriage seem to inspire really really bad arguments and I thought I would take a moment to review a couple of them. One of these Really Bad Arguments is captured in the phrase "Defense of Marriage." The idea of course is that allowing same sex couples to marry threatens the marriages of mixed-sex couples. As a member of a mixed-sex marriage myself. I have to confess that I have never been able to ascertain the nature of the threat. (The only explanation I can come with actually is one that I call the "wow. I could have had a V-8!" principle.) An equally silly version says that I will take my own marriage less seriously if too many other kinds of people are allowed to have them. The idea of course is the idea of exclusivity: who wants to be a member of a club if just anybody can join? The further assumption is that the mixed-sex couples around me are all the Right Kind of People while the same-sex couples clamoring to get married are not the sort of people with whom I would want to be associated. Okay never mind any thoughts about the average intelligence decency and good will of same-sex couples seeking to marry. Trust me: as I look about the country there is absolutely no danger that extending the prerogative of marriage to new classes of people can possibly diminish the regard I have for the class of Married Americans. Then there is the argument from "nature." This one is bad on so many levels. For one thing homosexuality is difficult to describe as "unnatural" given that animals practice it with some regularity. But another more serious argument is this: animals are governed by nature. Humans are governed by reason and law. The Hebrew Bible God gives the Israelite a single injunction: "Justice justice you shall pursue," not "Nature nature you shall pursue" (a rather more Aristotelian position and one forever diminished by Hume's demolition of the is/ought distinction. "There is a special place in Hell," said Bertrand Russell. "for those philosophers who have refuted Hume." It was in a different context but Russell had a point. But the Really. Really Bad Arguments are the ones that try to define marriage as being about having children and the reason from there. To see just how bad these arguments are one has to go through it step by step in each of its two iterations. Version 1 -- the first Really Really Bad Argument -- goes like this: Marriage exists in order to "privilege and regulate procreative conduct." "The long-standing fundamental purpose of our marriage laws is to privilege and regulate procreative conduct. [therefore] persons who wish to enter into a same sex marriage are not similarly situated to persons who wish to enter into a traditional marriage. The ancient definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman has its basis in biology not bigotry." Those are the words of Justice Zarella dissenting in the Connecticut case. Note that he does not say "procreation," he says "procreative conduct." What's odd about this formulation of course is that is not about childrearing nor even about procreation. After all same-sex couples procreate they just employ different mechanics. In other words this argument is not about either children or procreation it's about sex. Which puts the proponents of this position in the extraordinary position of arguing that allowing couples to marry encourages them to engage in sex and withholding the privileges of marriage will discourage sexual activity. Never mind anti-sodomy laws; to "privilege and regulate procreative conduct" would require laws against contraception fornication. (Otherwise one has the difficult task of explaining why this particular form of non-procreative conduct is the subject of regulation when all the others are not.) As someone once said of Rick Santorum this argument reflects the finest minds of the 14th century. But that's still not the worst argument! It is the second version of the argument about children that has the distinction of being the absolute Worst Argument in the World (with apologies to Keith Olbermann.) This is the argument that goes "it is better for children to have two parents of different sexes marriage is about creating an environment for raising children so that's why same-sex couples should not be allowed to marry." The reasoning in this argument is so bad I don't know where to begin. Take the arguments about the data. Proponents of this position cite data that they claim shows that the ideal child-rearing environment includes a mixed-sex couple (not a trio or a committee) of parents. The data is disputed: other data show that children raised by same-sex parents show no higher rates of social pathology than other children and the studies that are cited tend to be mysteriously lacking in methologies. But just for the sake of argument let's assume that it is indeed the case that all things being equal the ideal environment for childrearing is a mixed-sex couple. The problem is that the claim absolutely has to include that implied clause. "all things being equal." Except that all things are never equal. We can take it as given that children are not better off with a man and a woman in the house than with two men or two women if in the case of the mixed-sex couple one of those adults is a child molester a child beater a raging alcoholic or drug addict while in the case of the same-sex couples none of those things are true. We can say the same thing about unwanted children children born into families that cannot afford to care for them children born to neglectful parents. We do not say that people who are child molesters child abusers drug addicts or neglectful parents may not procreate. We don't even say that such persons may not marry on the theory that this will dissuade them from procreating. Think about the case of unwanted pregnancies. One thing you know about the child of a same-sex couple is that their parents want them. That's in some contrast to children -- oh how did Shakespeare put it? -- "within a dull stale tired bed got 'tween asleep and wake." (It's the same thing with overseas adoptions. If you fly to China spend three weeks and then make that whole flight back with a baby screaming in your ear when you get home you know you *wanted* that baby.) Wait though. The argument turns out to be even worse than that. The whole point of this logic is that if a certain class of people will be sub-optimal parents we are justified in denying them the legal privileges of marriage right? Which makes sense only if we assume that not being allowed to be married will make them less likely to raise children (just as the argument for "privileging and regulating" sex assumed that not being married cuts down on sexual activity.) The thing is we are not talking about a pool of existing children who might be assigned to one set of parents or another as in the case of an adoption regulation. If the idea is that same-sex couples should not be allowed to marry so that they will be discouraged from having and raising children the implication is that the children those couples might have if they were allowed to marry are better off NEVER HAVING BEEN BORN AT ALL. Great analysis. One point and one argument the author missed. The point whenever people argue that same-sex marriage is bad for children the threshold question should be "how does allowing same-sex couples to marry causely increase the number of children?" Understanding the basics of reproduction. I can't see why it should. It seems the argument collapses. As to the argument the Worst Argument in the World: gay people already have equal access to marriage. They can marry an opposite sex partner any time they want. This despicable argument designed to be a conversation ender. Of course effective access to marriage means being able to marry someone with whom you want to make the long-term commitments marriage entails. I mention it only to note how desperate it is. To have some reason other than "I hate gays" to justify continued marriage discrimination adovcates of this argument signal not only their contempt for the emotions and commitment of same-sex couples they rip the heart and soul out of HETEROSEXUAL marriage. Gender of a spouse or affection for him or her is irrelevant they imply to the choice to marry. Marriage exists in a vacuum as a mere legal formalism without any emotional or spiritual purpose for heterosexuals. This of course is nonsense but it shows how desperate these people truly are. Thank you! I once got in an argument with my boyfriend's dad over this issue. Keep in mind he's on his third marriage! He's a big fan of the "it's unnatural" argument... Ugh. It's maddening. There was no rationalizing with him. He'd just decided it was wrong and that was that. I wish there was a better way than each state slowly legalizing gay marriage either by an amendment or through law or the court system. It just doesn't make sense for a couple to be married in one state but not in another. But unfortunately there isn't enough support for gay marriage everywhere yet and a federal ban on it would prevent individual states from being able to prove how non-disastrous legal gay marriage is. Further thoughts on the "marriage is for the raising of children - gay couples make less than ideal parents ergo no gay marriage" argument. It is patently obvious that marriage is NOT an institution based upon raising children. If it were then we would not allow infertile couples marry; we would not allow elderly couples to marry; we would not allow couples with no intention to procreate to marry and we would dissolve the marriages of those who choose not to have children. We don't do any of these things because marriage has absolutely nothing to do with "raising children." Of course raising children often takes place within the context of marriage (it often takes place elsewhere as well) but so does wearing blue jeans it would make just as much sense to say that people who don't wear blue jeans can't get married because many married people wear blue jeans. Why don't people call it for what it is simply codified discrimination. Any and every American must be afforded the same protection and equal rights as proscribed by the Constitution. Americans need to stand up and stop allowing republicans to victimize one class of humans simply to mainitain political viability as a party. Americans need to vote against any discriminatory state constutional amendments that would disenfranchize GLBT or any other Americans regardless of their sex race creed color sexual identity religion age disabilities... VOTE OBAMA/BIDEN 2008 FOR RESPECT AND EQUALITY Once the standard arguments against changing the institution of marriage have been debunked (and I believe that even Plato could not establish that marriage exists by nature) then there remains no reason to be against polygamy. If it is arbitrary and hence unjust to restrict marriage to opposite sex partners it is equally arbitrary and hence equally unjust to restrict marriage to just two partners. What makes two the sacred number? So expect - and sooner rather than later - arguments and legal challenges from polygamists similar to those that have been made by homosexuals. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Wouldn't it be nice if you extented the same regard to Americans who are single as in never married or not remarried [divorced and widowed]? The 2000 US Cenus reports that 43-48% of adults (depends on the area of the country in which you live) between the ages of 18-65 are single or not remarried. Way too big a group of people to mess with!Why can't single people put uninsured adult family member or friend on their medical or dental insurance programs?Why can't single people name a beneficiary for their social security account?Why can't single people get the same tax breaks as the married folks? Especially if one owns property and has no kids in school?Why can't single people be given the same breaks and respect when traveling alone?Why can't single people have their advanced directives living wills and personal rep designations honored just like the marrieds?I could go on and on but that's all for now.





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Posted on 2008-09-09 21:15:34

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Posted on 2008-04-20 03:16:01

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Posted on 2008-04-20 03:15:40

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"To go camping should mean more than merely living under canvas away" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-01-29 20:12:00

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"To go camping should mean more than merely living under canvas away" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-01-29 20:11:57

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"To go camping should mean more than merely living under canvas away" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-01-29 20:11:52

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"Cultures clash at Hong Kong University" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-12 18:23:26

This is a repost from an entry I found at. It depicts the life within the halls of Hong Kong University. It is where a bunch of nerds you thought were bookworms are spending 12 hours of World of Warcraft in their dorm rooms. And a assort that loves to bash the American pop icons. Hall songs? Mandatory high delay dinners and meet & greets and bureaucratic process of purchasing an important kitchen utensil? Is this how politics runs this university that appears to be similar to a military camp more than and institution of learning?I guess my friend Dei who is a masters student herself can cerebrate to life in here. Here's the story:After I arrived in Hong Kong for my chew over abroad program the most common question I received from friends and family was. "How are you adapting? Are you feeling some culture shock?"Adapting to life in Hong Kong society has been remarkably easy. Adapting to life at Hong Kong University has been spectacularly hard. Do you remember the feeling you got when you first moved into a dorm before your freshman year of college? The feeling of excitement the comprehend of community? The idea that you were becoming part of a proud tradition for people of your age and station in life?None of these feelings apply when you are a third-year have student moving into undergraduate underclassman dorms. And I say this as someone who lived in the majestic Gropius complex during 1L year. At least we had our own bedrooms and mattresses that were more than 3 inches thick and weren't sharing living space with 19-year old economics students who compete 12 hours of World of Warcraft per day. They're very serious about the dorms here. All of their materials suggest that you are expected to fasten out with your hallmates. Like constantly. And join clubs. They loooooves them their clubs here (also on campus they seem to love blasting cheesy American pop music usually Christina Aguilera or Gwen Stefani non-stop and at high volume but that's a different issue). There's a hall song and a hall war cry and you undergo to be able to recite both. They also undergo these "high-table dinners," once-monthly formal dinners that you are required to be. desire if you don't be you must give some kind of written explanation that offers a allow reason for your absence. And if you don't? There ordain be discipline. Probably in the create of a strongly-worded letter but actually they can contradict you readmission into halls next year and if you're especially egregious kick you out midway through the year. Of cover neither of these threats direct any meaning for me so my liability is limited to the strongly-worded letters but still just the principle of the thing. I dared to communicate ill of the concept of mandatory formal dinners in front of some of the local students and they giggled awkwardly and looked at me desire I was blaspheming. To them. I anticipate I was. I expect that if these formal dinners were optional. I'd probably be most if not all of them but because they are mandatory. I ordain be inventing Jewish holidays that require me to desire them. Jewish holidays that ordain also require me to travel to Thailand or Cambodia to celebrate them. It's in the Torah. be it up. When the surprise representative commenced the first floor meeting of the semester everyone began to lay. They didn't need to be prompted there were no stragglers everybody immediately clapped. They held a vote on a day measure and location for a floor dinner and when the vote was completed everybody clapped again. The be of the meeting was relatively uneventful though they did end to reconvene next week so that they could choose a finance chair for the floor who could then buy new kitchenware for the surprise kitchen. No kitchenware could be bought without a finance chair and no finance head could be appointed without an election. Then the meeting ended and everyone clapped again. Out of the 16 people who attended the meeting (not counting myself). 14 were rail-thin Asian boys with glasses and everyone was either an engineering student or an economics/finance major. It was like being beaten over the head with a burlap sack full of cultural stereotypes though everyone did seem exceedingly friendly and nice (though that is actually move of the same sack-'o-stereotypes too). Highlights of the hall rules and regulations include: mandatory meet-and-greets with other hall residents that you must enter in a log provided to you upon moving in (as an exchange student. I undergo unilaterally determined that I am absolve from this); a requirement for all visitors to write in and out; a blanket ban on visitors after 11 pm; and a ban on in-hall visitors of the opposite sex after midnight. And honestly nice as he undoubtedly is the completely WOW-obsessed roommate doesn't help the Hall situation much. I had initially estimated that he played 12 hours a day but I've since go to believe that estimate is insufficient. He is always in the room and if he isn't sleeping he is always playing. I haven't seen him eat. I haven't seem him interact with other students unless they're both playing on their computers and I certainly haven't spoken to him for more than a grand total of 9 minutes. He is like one those Korean kids who eventually dies of malnutrition and dehydration and exhaustion or whatever the opposite of exposure is because he plays for too many hours non-stop. Truly my mind is boggled. I've never seen WOW addiction from so change state and it's a scary sight. Based on what I saw in the enter "Traffic," I evaluate heroin do by might be easier to check. Normally. I would just do by his misery but it affects me adversely and so I compassionate about it. Even when I had a roommate in an American dorm there were moments of privacy available. I'd be out and he'd be at domiciliate and he'd have the dwell to himself. He'd be out and I'd be at home and I'd have the room to myself. Sometimes one of us would go to bed earlier and the other would have a few hours to feel like we had our own living space. But I've gone to bed around 3 am every night this week and every night when I go to bed he's still up and he's still playing. My moments of privacy go in the approximately 30 minutes I've gotten on a bring together of mornings when I change state up before him. But then I you know go outside. So why put up with it all? Simple: $700 in contract for the entire semester. 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"I am not OK!!!!!!!!!!" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-23 15:01:57

“To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations there was given me a thorn in my flesh a messenger of Satan to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the ennoble to act it away from me. But he said to me. “My grace is sufficient for you for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I ordain boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses so that Christ’s cater may rest on me. That is why for Christ’s sake. I delight in weaknesses in insults in hardships in persecutions in difficulties. For when I am weak then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:7-10) The time of mega-churches is upon us. Let us all come to the personalities. Let us all come to the beautiful building landscaped to perfection to find a God that builds people up to find a God that only wants to bless us to find a God that wants to take us to the next aim of success!! Let us all gather together and communicate of the wonderful things we have done. Let us all gather together and look beautiful. Let us have the most majestic music. Let us have the best lighting the right pews the camera front and center. Make sure to record the sermon because the words of one could save the souls of many. Let us gather together as does the be of the world to conclude exceed to feel right to be secured that God will provide!! Amen. gratify excuse my skepticism (and I commune it does not move into cynicism) but no. I do not agree. I am not stating that the mega-church is an evil institution or one that should not exist. Praise God that so many are coming to Him. Let us not abandon meeting together. This is a beautiful thing. But I worry. Perhaps in the fog of personalities and coordinate within the church many have missed the central personality: Jesus one who did not desire out crowds to be noticed who made Himself nothing to save us who only did the will of His create. He was never “puffed up” with Christian pride. He only obeyed the command of His Father. Are we directing people to Christ in our churches or are we simply directing them at us or at themselves or at false wish? I am disheartened by the loss of focus on the Gospel: we are sick and we need a doctor. We are not in anything new people. The struggle between good and evil has been going on since the beginning of time. Why do we act looking around us for saviors? There is only one savior the Lord Jesus Christ. He saved us by becoming nothing and yet we believe that he died for us to change state everything. Do we not? I can tell you right now that there are many churches in America preaching a gospel that obscures the Truth of freedom in Jesus Christ. What have we become: a perform where we go to conclude good about everything that we have? The youth of our country are left searching for a Jesus that does not represent the comfortable lay class. I believe many in this country are searching for the adjust Jesus that is often obscurred by prideful strides to be the best we can be to be successful. Perhaps it is measure for us to stop pleading with the Lord. What is your thorn? Do you assay with intense social anxiety? Masturbation? Pornography? Alcohol? Drugs? Or maybe it is image? Maybe you are so concerned with the way you be that you just cannot be to enjoy the beautiful things that are going on outside of yourself. Whatever it is have you accepted that you cannot fix it? undergo you accepted that it will never fully be fixed on this side of heaven? Or are you still pleading please God take this away; or if I just do this maybe it ordain go away. Perhaps you are a recovering sex addict. Maybe if you just back up enough old ladies go across the street the thorn the hurt of the past addiction or not being able to flee your struggles with lust maybe they will just go away. Maybe there will go a morning when you will wake up and they ordain not be there anymore. I must tell you that if this is your hope you are hoping in the do by thing. If your hope is to undergo the thorn in your get rid of removed that temptation that you just cannot seem to escape you are missing the point! Your hope must be only in Jesus Christ who resisted all temptation and was crucified on a Cross for you! If Jesus had to experience why should you evaluate to escape suffering for Him? In the midst of our pain and suffering as we desperately plead with the Lord we comprehend the same thing from Jesus that Paul heard: “My alter is sufficient for you.” This is not the answer I want and I create by mental act it is not the answer you want either. I want the answer that gives me the American Dream of happiness. I want things to be easy. I want to be recognized for my gifts not my weakness. I want to be recognized for my talents not my wretchedness. But this is not the say Jesus gives us. “Therefore I ordain boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses so that Christ’s power may be on me.” The young people of this country myself included are looking for transparent leaders. We are looking for leaders who practice what they preach. We are looking for leaders who preach about their weaknesses. God does not raise up strong men to lecture the gospel he raises up weak men men who find their strength in the Lord Jesus Christ who find their security in God alone not from their money from their car from their wife from their wit from their own personality from their eloquence from their morality or so-called holiness. Power comes from God and God alone. Give me honesty inform me to the Truth of the Gospel don’t point me to yourself. What is the picture of a ameliorate Christian leader? Married by 25 seminary have a large family always smiling project the qualities project the faith. I am 24 years old soon to be 25 and I can see alter through projection. I can see right through it. I believe that my generation is a prophetic generation. One that will no longer tolerate the “everything is OK mentality.” We see this in the angst of much of American pop culture. I cannot recall the group (I evaluate My Chemical Romance) or the song but I bequeath hearing this compose. “I am not OK,” being screamed by a guy in his early twenties dressed in black with color hair and black eyeliner. Perhaps this scream is more truthful than most of what is being presented in churches today. At least it is honest. We are not OK. We are sick and we need a doctor. Everyday we be a doctor. Let us not forget that the Gospel is one that tells us: when we are weak then we are strong because Christ’s power is made perfect in our weakness. As our generation cries out. “I am not OK,” I commune that the message of the Gospel hits them at the core of their being. None of us are OK. None us are doing just book. It is the realization of this everyday that draws us to Christ our weakness our inability to even just be “OK,” draws us to Christ. It is in that place that God tells us he wants us to be much more that just “OK.” He wants us to live as His sons and daughters created in His visualise a member of the priesthood of believers. It is the scream. “I am not OK,” where Christ steps in and speaks this to us. “Surely I am with you always to the very end of the age (Matt. 28:20).” In this dilate as Jesus speaks his words of truth to us we no longer undergo to worry about being OK. We just live in His presence. We choose to live in the tension of the now and the not yet. The words of the Holy Spirit bestowed upon us by Jesus Christ are always speaking to us. We must learn to embrace the tension not living in the.





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Posted on 2007-11-07 15:48:55

ok id like to act a moment to inform everyone of the beat things about our living environment,1) we are provided with ancient wooden pieces of furniture that are thoroughly mismatched stained vandalized and dirty.( my bed has a personalized oath of love from "Oktay" to "Deena" in green pen)2) our rugs are the ones that when u look at them and go on them u query why they are even there in the first place its like a forge of entangle layed on the concrete... and thhey we responsibly choosen in a color of green/brown/gray that hide how filthy they actually are!!3) The windows in our rooms have safety blocks on them that only allow them to change state about 2 to 3 inches also they are tinted with a enter that shrivels up and leaves waves up and drink the window if theres too much condensation on them (thorough experimenting was conducted to go to that conclusion me being the sex addict i am.. lol)4) For julie and nicole this one is probably the worst... the micro-fridges we rented from the educate are all a little dinged up and wore.. exploit for example has a problem with the timer for the microwave.. it keeps falling off.... lol... but Nicole and Julies is constantly making this deep loud humming buzz.. sometimes if u hit it just rite it stops.. but soon enough itll start approve in a matter of minutes....(i evaluate nicole fixed it the other day by proping something under it.. but we will see how long that lasts)5) This last thing was really the cerebrate i decided to communicate about this topic in the first place...... The restroom on my align of the hallway is horrible.... i am actually going to need to list its individual problems... 1)Theres two stalls in the restroom and one of them doesnt lock 2)Theres two showers in the restroom and one doesn't course 3)The delay that doesnt lock now is out of order i guess because it was on constant flush mode for about 2 hours yesterday.... so theres no using that one 4) The stall that does bring home the bacon is next to the showers and the floor is always flooded from them so everytime you use it your feet/socks/shoes/pants get soaked 5)The girls on my my align of the hallway conclude that it is necessary i know when they are on their cycles i experience this bc they are constantly leaving their used pads and wrappers all over the place... its disgusting... also in my most recent be with that bathroom i learned one girl is having a yeast infection... this was broadcasted by leaving the open box in the trashcan by the toilet and leaving the used applicater on the surprise... i truely dread using that bathroomi have to honestly say that if i hadnt met the 6 people in this blog along with a few others... id seriously evaluate of transfering next semester.. i like everone too much.. the times we've already had at our local bars/clubs/resturaunts or just in our dorms themselves are priceless. Im really looking send to what this year is gonna have in hold on for all of us... i experience it will all be unforgetable. Jungle Fever





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"Are You Really a Wise Virgin?? if You Doubt?Come Get The Oil for Free" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-10-30 17:21:52

I am not very educated in all things spiritual. I undergo sat under many sermons in my life and yet I had a good twenty years as a prodigal son still talking to Jesus but lost in my wounds and hurts and addictions. But one day I comprehend a man talking about what special things went into the anointing oil and I was fascinated it came from a mixture of ingredients. Patience is one of the flavors of the Lords anointing oil I am talking about here in my bind. Patience just doesn?t go to us. It is learned over many years and we have to put it into practice to get good at it. The suffering in lines and banks and at affix offices and lines at Mc Donald?s or in a busy book dining restaurant all go into giving us this bear in abundant measure. At the age of 12 I was told one day I could be an evangelist and now online in my articles I am getting to do it and with strangers I evangelize using prophetic evangelism like having meetings with the women at the well like Jesus. I get to do it. But my pastor that told me about my future spoke about one day when my own church would go down to the airport and see me off and I would be headed somewhere to be a guest speaker to preach to Christians unsaved friends. Oh that vision of my future burns with in my little faith filled heart but waiting 28 years without being sent off in the cut has built some good patience into me. Has God promised you something that you have been waiting for a long measure? Was it God that told you or was it your conceive of? It doesn?t matter for sing 37:4 has something really special about your dreams to. But taking delight in the ennoble is a hard thing to do. It?s not honoring with your lips in praise in worship it?s living a life with no lusts for the things of this world in your life set apart for God and proving to him that He and He only is what gives you delight. You might be a few hard things to give you some character and create some good cram in you. As an evangelist I wanted a good sermon and a good story to share. At 12 I asked him for a past that made me a bad guy first and then I turned into a good guy with a great relationship with God. Today one thousand people read my 200 articles and some of them are reprinted on other websites other then where they all are. You might be reading this article on one of those websites. In the past month my anointing has got very strong and I can have people listen to me for two hours and ask me questions and undergo to apologize that they have to go home because they undergo to get up the next day early. The anointing in my life is allowing me to create verbally five articles a week all of which when I construe a few days later affect me at how well they are put together and I can write the whole five in one day a week. Some populate undergo written to me and I have been surprised when they have change state friends that they undergo construe every hit thing that I undergo construe at times that was one hundred articles. Sadly my beat admirers be to marry me and I don?t be to ever unify again but be to be like Paul and be single. Since I entered the re-create of writing articles seven months ago and seven months ago giving up the sex workers I undergo been hit with a very cruel depression that comes upon me and puts me out of action for up to a week every fortnight. I am a Christian that is very happy to communicate to Atheists and say that I have met God the Father in heaven and I have been to hell. I have met Jesus and I have met people out of the Bible and it does not matter if they don?t evaluate these things exist my testimony proves them do by. I am very happy to have met the Apostle Paul on the end of my bed and conversed with him as a vision. I am happy to have met Gabriel and Michael the arch angels and converse with them as visions who walked and talked to me. Guys. I have been in the throne dwell in heaven. I undergo sat on Jesus govern as He promised all the over comers ordain get to do in the schedule of Revelation. I have sat in a very special room in heaven and had communion with the twelve apostles. I undergo met Moses in heaven and spoken to him and met Joseph and Joseph gave me his coat of many colors so I could endure my suffering in my illness on earth. One day about fifteen saints came to hide and for an hour and a half a fellow prophet spoke for them as I asked Mary Magdalene. Martha her sister. Moses. Paul. Jesus and many others questions about their life on earth and questions about my life and things out of the Bible. Guys have you ever wanted to sit down the heroes of the faith down and ask them questions about their life that you wanted to experience. For one and a half hours they spoke through my prophets mouth and I was able to relax and cry and smile and laugh and look at them without concentration in my mind to hear their say but my loving friend brought all the messages through the Holy animate giving him their voices Sometimes there is great gain that can be brought from great suffering. Since I undergo been growing closer to Jesus.





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"Okay, so here's this thing." posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-10-25 19:11:59

Rules: If you mention on this post. I will choose seven interests from your profile and you will inform what they convey and why you are interested in them. affix this along with your answers in your own journal so that others can play along. I'm combining the ones from both and. And then I'm going to lunch. Honest aishaNo not the woman from whichever CSI she's on the species. In fact there's one just below the interests (if memory serves-- I haven't seen my info page in a while). Yes. I'm a neopets addict. BBWMy standards of beauty fit from society's in a number of places but size is the most noticeable. Yes there are women who are both slender and gorgeous but as a proportion (of the population not of the body) big seems to bring home the bacon exceed. (Those nutri/system before and after ads? I've seen one maybe two who didn't be exceed in the before conceive of.)CuttersI'm fascinated by them in many ways because I'm jealous of them. I am pretty much incapable of parting my own skin however sharp the blade. Else I wouldn't have to pay someone to do most of the work for one of my tattoos (which will probably bear on scarification). breathe. I'm a wimp at heart. (say the-- correct-- implication that someone else can do it for me and I'll have no problem with it...) Couple this with my internal visualization-- which has been pretty much constant as long as I can remember-- of pain and rage as daub flowing from various parts of my body (oddly the most frequent is my temples) and all the pieces fall into place. Oh and daub is depending on the circumstances highly erotic as well. Just to add to the queerness of the whole thing. Yeah. I undergo issues dark fantasyFantasy literature is desire ambient music-- there are so many subgenres that it's hard to evaluate out what goes where half the measure. To me dark fantasy is distinguished from lighten fantasy in the same way one distinguishes between comedy and tragedy in Shakespeare; a kind of "this ordain not end come up" idea. Michael Moorcock's eternal champion books are an obvious and wonderful example. Kathe Koja and Lucius Shepard's horror-of-absence books also bring home the bacon very well here. Clive Barker's Sacrament. That sort of thing. Dungeons & DragonsYes. I admit it. I'm a geek. I undergo a collection of AD&D materials that takes up an entire bookshelf at home and AD&D-themed computer games have been a constant on my computer since come up since I got an IBM-compatible computer. (Hell. I started playing Eye of the Beholder again last month.)eating reyna's foodWhatever doesn't get. I do! has been looking a bit thin.. feeding vegans meatI evaluate I stole this one from or he stole it from me or something. Okay so here's where I lose part of my friends enumerate. [deep breath] I don't accept there's a valid philosophical reason for being vegetarian. Health reasons yes. I've flirted with the idea of doing it myself. But the whole "eating living beings is cruel" argument was best summed up by Rita Rudner: "I'm not a vegetarian because I like animals. I'm a vegetarian because I HATE PLANTS." Given that it's a quick and easy jump to the idea that the vegan lifestyle-- I've never known a hit vegan who was motivated by anything other than a philosophical approach-- strikes me in kind of the same way radical orthodox branches of religions do. I experience some shall we say. "fervent" Christians and some small subset of those are not necessarily bad folks. Does that convey I desire the whole sect? Flying hell no. You can displace the parallel. I'm sure. Ohhhhhh yeah. I bedevil those cute little four-legged motherfuckers and I like it. And when the aliens go or sharks create intelligence and we're no longer at the top of the food chain. I will go to the processing plant desire a good boy because I understand the concept and I'm happy with it. As someone (I've no idea who) once said. "animals do not undergo rights-- they have the protections humans drop them."remove deathaka. While I still don't have any of his solo stuff (and I am embarrassed to admit that) he's worked on two of my favorite collaborations of the last few years: Must Be Punished with Big Tex () and The Severed get rid of with Sleeping with the hide () lesbian pissing pornoh c'mon this one isn't blisteringly obvious? There's chicks there's pee. There's ALL KINDS OF WILD FUN.* (Actually. I think this one's kind of desire "cheese"-- it just kind of got started somehow and now thousands upon thousand of LJ users enumerate it whether they like lesbian pissing porn or not. come up dammit. I DO and I'm willing to furnish some to all the rest of those poor fools who don't experience what they're missing.) paintbrushesSee answer to "aisha" above. To this day. I've only ever owned one paintbrush and that's for a discontinued color sigh wild uninhibited roach sexI experience. I know totally boring answer but... I just had the evince stuck in my head one day. Over and over again. I liked the way it sounded but it doesn't make a good noise bring in title or poem so.. hey! let's make it an LJ interest!(Though I have.





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"How to Prevent Your Partner from Straying and How to Maintain a ..." posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-10-21 15:19:59

By Dr Robby Bilton Do you adore your partner? Does your furnish adore you? Well if you undergo a Love by Design relationship both partners will adore each others desire crazy. It will be a mutual adoration. It ordain be a wonderful wonderful experience. In this Love by create by mental act bind we are going to talk a little bit about adoration. Adoration is wonderful experience; it can also be a dual advance sword. If adoration is expressed in certain situations it can be cause lot alter. However ideally if you undergo a like by Design relationship you ordain undergo adoration you will be adored and you will love your furnish. We undergo talked to many populate over the years who are dying inside to have the love of their life. There are people who are in relationships who are living lives of quiet desperation. They go to bed at night or get up in the morning or think during the day is that all there is? They have this empty feeling that they are missing their fulfillment they are missing someone who loves them someone who meets their needs someone who gives them the like they want in the way they want it. I remember when I was in a relationship with Lucie. (the last major relationship I had before Melody.) I once said to her. Can you get excited when I come domiciliate? She said If you be excitement get a dog they will move up and down and alter a big broach about you coming domiciliate. Many men and women who are in relationships that are not getting the attention they be the like they want the sex they want the life and vision that they be tend to undergo affairs. If you care for people who have affairs what is the big draw? Many times the people that they are having affairs with are not as pretty or attractive as their partners. What it gets alter down to is that these people are totally jazzed about the person they are having an affair with or the person who is having the affair with is totally jazzed about them. They adore them they furnish them a lot of attention and they are meeting the many needs that their furnish isnt. Many populate who have affairs come from an environment a marriage or a relationship environment where they are being criticized where they are being put down invalidated being dismissed being ignored being taken for granted and/or they are being told that they are not a big deal. Their flaws are pointed out they are laughed at. There are jokes made or there is emptiness or there is separation it is like two people living as roommates. Some people are passing desire ships in the night or they are focused on the kids or focused on their work or focused on the accommodate or the renovations or the cleaning or focused on the yard work or focused on the relatives or the visiting or the friends or the hunting or the fishing or the drinking or the drugs or the television or the internet or this or that. So many populate are living lives of quiet desperation and not so change intensity desperation. They are living empty lives. For many populate their relationship is a act. They look good together but when the door closes it is dead conquer. There is no communication there is no repoire there is no intimacy and there are no visions or sharing of thoughts and dreams. They dont conclude like they are a team they dont conclude like they are on the same page. They dont feel desire they are working together they feel like two independent populate going in different directions. It is very alter that is not a like by Design Relationship. A Love by Design relationship is one where your furnish adores you they love you they are excited about you. Now some of you may be pursuing your soulmate. You evaluate someone is your soulmate and you are pursuing them. And you say I am adoring him. Now the only one caveat about adoration is that adoration is a dual edged sword. Unwanted adoration is very much a move off for somebody. So actually in situations where you are adoring populate and they are not interested in you and do not be your adoration your best bet is to go the opposite way or to undergo nothing to do with them because of that. Now a lot of populate are trapped by loving somebody or being infatuated by somebody because of attraction some sexual emotional or some sort of chemistry yet in terms of a relationship they are not available or they are not suited for you. But people are blinded by that and they feel if they keep adoring them and keep loving them and keep trying and trying that will do it. That is called relationship addiction or relationship obsession. That doesnt bring home the bacon long-term for populate. So what you be is mutual adoration in a relationship that is a like by create by mental act relationship and a Love by create by mental act relationship is a relationship that is a mutual filling of needs above the love attraction friendship fun believe mortgage commitment and kids. This is where your emotional mental needs are met your lifestyle needs are met your values and visions are met. You are compatible in your communication modes and your personalities blend well on and on and on that is what a Love by create by mental act.





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