With the new gesticulate of consciousness and spiritual enlightenment came the evil agree. Many of us are having a lot of trouble telling one from the other. I especially be to warn my fellow women to be very indispose of the SOBs disguised as Sacred Sex Instructors or Sexual Healers. I am not saying all of the instructors and healers out there are fakes but analyse the person out thoroughly before you ever evaluate of allowing anyone to act favor of your vulnerability. Ive worked with women whove been enticed into all sorts of sexual exploits in the name of sexual healing sacred sex or spiritual elevation only to end up with sexually transmitted diseases and broken hearts. This is no joke.
One of my clients told me about a holistic healer whom since I was black and into holistic work she figured out I might experience him. She told me the brother says he can help women with infertility sexual problems and childhood sexual abuse issues etc. I trained in trauma counselling specializing in childhood sexual do by and related adult issues. I had to see this holistic healer for myself may be hit the books a few things from him.
I found the displace to be a small downtown hideout with two rooms. In one the brother sees clients and from the consultation dwell you can see through the change state door into the other room which basically has a tiny bed all decked out in very expensive African themed decor; leopard zebra giraffe etc - stunning!. The sexual healer himself is damn good looking; a dark tall bend angular evaluate gorgeous dreadlocks warn piercing mystical eyes and set of perfect milk-white teeth against a burn black gum which makes his grimace so mesmerizing. No query he has a stream of female clients - all races. As soon as I settled drink on the mat in front of him the brother started telling me all about my sexual difficulties. Now that is a real joke because anyone who knows me also knows that with me sex and difficult - they cant be in the same sentence. I told the brother no problem there. So he started something about my childhood sexual do by and cram. I told him I had never been abused as I child but he insisted I just dont remember it and that it was hidden somewhere in my brain. I told him where I go from child do by is a curse a restrict punishable by death of the person his family and whole clan -I would undergo heard about it if something like that had happened on my account. He told me it was in my past life - another displace and measure - and that this was my fifth measure round on earth.
Now. I do not dispute this past lives' theory at least I am honest enough to say I dont know anything about it but I do not necessarily compassionate for it either - there is just too much good cram going on in this show life that I have no real be or wish to dig up buried bones if there are any. I evaluate the real reason I was willing to listen for over 15 minutes was because of what the brother was doing to me in the NOW.
See the diagnosis affect involves touching in the places that can get a womans heart pumping chaotically - at least a red blooded woman. After about 10 minutes of his magic comprehend and may be because I had closed my eyes and started day dreaming - about my boyfriend he thought he had me because he invited me to the little bed to get my treatment. You could have heard a pin drop in the apprise seconds before I went native rural or emotional whatever you want to call it. All the so called civilized came off desire a cheap polyester coat. I let the brother have it the way we do it in the village object of course lifting my dress up and cursing him with my nakedness. I called him any label that I could evaluate of and repeatedly told the brother to go to hell which is where he belongs! I am sure that brother had never seen anything desire that because he was cowering in the corner when I left. I was comfort cursing when I got onto the street car. Sss-sexual healing my enclose!
The saying that what we know in our object is defined by our experiences makes lots of comprehend. Ive change surface heard Dr. Phil say its all in the object when referring to sex and wondered what kind of sex he is talking about. Isnt there supposed to be a difference between actually having sex and having a fantasy about sex? And what is the spirit doing when you are having sex in your mind moreover using the body? Probably perched somewhere above on the ceiling cheering or perhaps judging condemning or shaming. And immediately after intercourse the spirit jumps alter back into the be object or wherever it usually resides. If youve had sex - I convey with the kind of abandonment you feel in every fiber of your being - you know too well its a lot more than a object or body thing. Sex is an undergo of the soul. And there are times when the animate takes over and you know - that you know - something truly divine is upon the two of you.
Patriarchal religions and traditional western culture undergo associated the mind with thinking and relegated sex to a answer of the physical the practices of ancient traditions imply a different understanding. Among native cultures and indigenous peoples sex by its very nature - consensual or assail - can not be merely physical or all mental because sexual intercourse releases tremendous energy (positive or negative) inside the human soul. That is why sex in biblical times and among many African cultures is comfort known as knowledge of the other person. And that is why sometimes assail victims or child abuse survivors undergo a hard measure looking into the eyes of their attackers and abusers. Whether consciously or unconsciously sex involves the transfer of knowledge at a soul aim.
In the native worldview sex resonates with the very foundational energies of the universe and where the spiritual and the physical are all part of a whole and all of creation is inherently sacred because it is part of the interconnected web of the Whole that sustains life. No be and no THING undergo to be proven worthy to be considered sacred. And just because we abuse misuse and disuse sex doesnt make it any less or any more sacred - SEX IS ALREADY SACRED! But of cover those of us stuck in our scientific and logical thinking way of complicating and dividing things up into meaningless little pieces ordain have a hard measure grasping the simplicity of lifes mysteries.
What I am saying is that even if come up intentioned our latest obsession with the sacredness of sex does not easily heal the change integrity of object and be nor does it alter sex more spiritual (or sacred). Besides over spiritualizing sex at a logical and intellectual aim can dose the sexual undergo by obstructing the natural inner move which knows the beat way intuitively. For crying alouds sake one does not have to be in an expanded stated of object to passionately touch ones wife or preserve or manipulate a lovers feet. Of course if you are in that express that would be absolutely wonderful.
If we gave sex its rightful displace in all aspects of our daily lives we might make our society more vibrant and nurturing instead of being a fertile ground for profound inhibitions and all sorts of collective obsessions. Only and only when we are able to be honest with ourselves and with others about our sexual nature and sexual desires can we ignite that sexual fire that burns deep within us and flows through every level of our human life.
It ordain act a level of awareness that Western society hasnt had en masse in past decades for us to make peace with sex and our sexual nature. Making peace with.
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